Hmmmm...here we are again! Been awhile, sorry followers- if there are any haha. I just wanted to take a bit to catch up with myself. I'm going to vent (as usual...this is my venting place)!
I guess I'm sort of in a pickle...I wanted my blog to beREAL , things that people are too chicken to be honest about. I feel that so many people live behind the shades, and their public persona takes over. I see it happen all of the time- and I wanted to be different. I wanted people to know that I live a real life- and while it's not perfect...I'm not ashamed or afraid to be who I am, to live the life I'm living. I figure through my triumphs, and through my trials- someone could learn. And if no one learns anything- at least they can relate, and know that they are not alone in the world. I just refuse to be fake.
From a young age- I have been very individualistic. I've never taken advice well- as I would rather learn the hard way. I'm a hands on type of chick, and I'm always gettin into some shit- but I love my life this way! I have so many friends, so many people who respect me, and have worked very hard to be the person I am today. I never gave into bullies, I never gave into the bullshit...I've kept my mind very clear, concise, and conscious of my surroundings. I'm smart, intelligent, and fight for what's right. I know the difference between wrong and right, and have seen the light.
Growing up I was a very confused child. I grew up in a drug addict environment, and though I didn't realize until I was about 11- the instant I found out- my whole life seemed to click into place and make sense. I realized why there was abuse, weird people around, why we were almost neglected as children- pretty much set to fend for ourselves. We weren't deprived so to speak- pretty spoiled actually...but by the age of 15 I had experienced shit that no teenager should.
I've never been a drug addict- I think that stems from growing up around them. I never wanted to be like my parents. I take pride in this- as growing up inHappy Valley , UT- LOT of drugs in my day...but I was never an addict, and never lost my clear head.
Now- with all of this in mind... take a second to ponder. With all that I have been through, and with all I have accomplished- why. Why do some of you believe that I'm just rotting away with Brittany, allowing her to abuse the hell out of me, control me, and 'ruin' my life. Come the fuck on!! You're the people claiming to know me best -my family, my closest friends! And you REALLY think that I'd just 'obey my master'? Reality check guys, I'm still the same spoiled bitch (Hence THEE Queen B! lmao!) and I will always be that way. I'm strong, determined, powerful, and don't take shit from anybody. Yes, we have been in physical fights...I'm ok to admit that- but NO, we haven't fought physically in a LONG TIME! And I'm so proud of the steps we have been taking.
See, what you don't understand is that I would not be here, I would not be trying this if I did not see it going anywhere. Again - you are my closest peeps, and have seen me 'go through guys like I change shirts'. Quoted from my sister directly. (I don't want that statement to come off the wrong way. I was abstinent for a very long time, and dated- but kept my legs closed. Respect for MYSELF first and foremost, and VERY limited on who I opened them for haha).
Literally though- I'd go on a date, if a dude fucked up once- Next. Simple, and for the last 2 years, that's pretty much all I did. Next, ummm Next, yep for sure next... and then B.
Where we have gone through some shit, I still see potential. I love her, and want to be with her, and am trying to make this work. As far as I'm concerned no one really has any room to talk about what I should do or why. It's a good thing I don't judge like some of you do (YOU KNOW WHO YOUARE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!) because if so- we would have missed out on a LOT of awesome fuckin memories. Ya'll were or are drug addicts, have issues with your relationships, have kids who are into drugs, have spouses who have been unfaithful, and the list goes on! Focus on YOUR lives, and stop judging mine. If you loved me- you'd want me to be happy right? Well that's what I'm doing, and you keep pushing me to the point where I’m going to write you off. Grow up, be an adult, and understand that I'm not an imbecile. I know what I'm doing, and I'm having the time of my life. Maybe if you came around, you'd see that. Stop being blind to what you want to believe, and maybe try to figure out if it's even true before you start talking shit.
Who the fuck are you?
I guess I'm sort of in a pickle...I wanted my blog to be
From a young age- I have been very individualistic. I've never taken advice well- as I would rather learn the hard way. I'm a hands on type of chick, and I'm always gettin into some shit- but I love my life this way! I have so many friends, so many people who respect me, and have worked very hard to be the person I am today. I never gave into bullies, I never gave into the bullshit...I've kept my mind very clear, concise, and conscious of my surroundings. I'm smart, intelligent, and fight for what's right. I know the difference between wrong and right, and have seen the light.
Growing up I was a very confused child. I grew up in a drug addict environment, and though I didn't realize until I was about 11- the instant I found out- my whole life seemed to click into place and make sense. I realized why there was abuse, weird people around, why we were almost neglected as children- pretty much set to fend for ourselves. We weren't deprived so to speak- pretty spoiled actually...but by the age of 15 I had experienced shit that no teenager should.
I've never been a drug addict- I think that stems from growing up around them. I never wanted to be like my parents. I take pride in this- as growing up in
Now- with all of this in mind... take a second to ponder. With all that I have been through, and with all I have accomplished- why. Why do some of you believe that I'm just rotting away with Brittany, allowing her to abuse the hell out of me, control me, and 'ruin' my life. Come the fuck on!! You're the people claiming to know me best -my family, my closest friends! And you REALLY think that I'd just 'obey my master'? Reality check guys, I'm still the same spoiled bitch (Hence THEE Queen B! lmao!) and I will always be that way. I'm strong, determined, powerful, and don't take shit from anybody. Yes, we have been in physical fights...I'm ok to admit that- but NO, we haven't fought physically in a LONG TIME! And I'm so proud of the steps we have been taking.
See, what you don't understand is that I would not be here, I would not be trying this if I did not see it going anywhere. Again - you are my closest peeps, and have seen me 'go through guys like I change shirts'. Quoted from my sister directly. (I don't want that statement to come off the wrong way. I was abstinent for a very long time, and dated- but kept my legs closed. Respect for MYSELF first and foremost, and VERY limited on who I opened them for haha).
Literally though- I'd go on a date, if a dude fucked up once- Next. Simple, and for the last 2 years, that's pretty much all I did. Next, ummm Next, yep for sure next... and then B.
Where we have gone through some shit, I still see potential. I love her, and want to be with her, and am trying to make this work. As far as I'm concerned no one really has any room to talk about what I should do or why. It's a good thing I don't judge like some of you do (YOU KNOW WHO YOU
Who the fuck are you?
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